Saturday, 28 January 2012

Keep Calm and Carry On

Well the good news is, I'm still alive. The bad (not really) news is, it wasn't easy.

Last Sunday (the 22nd), I moved families for the first time. Needless to say, it was really hard. In a way it was harder than leaving everything behind like I did almost 6 months ago. And don't ask my why, because I don't really have an answer. My guess is that 6 months ago, I didn't know what to expect and was full of excitement and nerves and was ready to throw caution to the wind, put on my big girl panties and experience life for all that it has. But this time, almost 6 months later, I had become so accustomed to my host family and to be honest, I considered myself one of the family and the feelings were mutual. The move  really just snuck up on me and almost took me by surprise. It wasn't like the first time where I had 3 months to anticipate it. This time it felt like I had only a few hours (I had more like a week, but in all honesty, it felt like 2 hours). The Saturday before I was to move, I sat in my bed and broke down crying. I don't know why, but I think I was just so full of emotions. The following week I had to pack all of my belongings into my 2 suitcase again and I have no idea how I have managed to accumulate so much more since I've been here - it is actually ridiculous.

At the airport on August 8, 2011
2 suitcases, 1 backpack and 1 small duffle bag
Moving Day - January 22, 2012
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You can see for yourself here how ridiculous it has become. And don't ask me how I'm going to get everything home because even I haven't thought about that yet - probably in denial of the fact that I actually do have to go home someday. I haven't booked my flight home yet and I'm not sure I want to because then that means that I have a definite end date on this roller coaster adventure and I'm not one for expiry dates. However I do keep getting emails from my travel agent in Connecticut...maybe I should get on that shortly...

In between all of the packing and intensive cleaning of my bedroom, I was still able to spend some quality time with the fam before I was evicted (just kidding, it wasn't so extreme). On the Friday night we met up with the rest of the family at our favourite restaurant in Olten that is famous for its Hamburgers - honestly the best in the world. If you are ever in Switzerland you have to visit "Ratskeller" - I can promise you, you won't regret it!

Rita, Ernst and I at our favourite restaurant in Olten
The family <3
Céline, Nati, Marielle, Pascal, Me, Rita and Ernst
(Lara is missing!)
 And on Saturday night we went over to Beat and Andrea's house for a lovelyyyy dinner and a great night!

Rita, Beat & Ernst

Beat, Andrea and I
And then came Sunday. It was a sad day and there were many emotions, but I survived and so did everyone else. I finished packing up my room and cleaning everything and then the good-byes began. My two host sisters weren't able to come with us to the new house, so I had a few teary good-byes before I even left the house.

Bye-bye old bedroom!
My "old" host parents drove me to my new house where my new host parents had cake and coffee waiting for us. We all sat around and talked for a while, but before long it was time for Rita and Ernst to head on their way. I had been choking back tears for most of the day, but as we walked to the front door, I let all of it out. But let's be honest, are you really surprised? 
I left a letter and card behind as well
I couldn't move without leaving some of Canada behind


After the Studers left, I went downstairs to my bedroom and began to unpack my mountain of things. Quite literally, a mountain. It took me the better part of 3 days to unpack, but I am almost accustomed to my new room - which is gigantic by the way.

I have managed to settle in quite nicely and my new host parents are amazing! They have twins - Oliva and Benjamin - but neither live at home anymore so I am an only child now. It has taken some getting used to, but my mom said that I always wanted to be an only child.


When I moved in, my door was decorated with a welcome sign and my bed was made with chocolates on my pillow. How adorable?! Ohh, and to say the cat loves my bed is an understatement.

Translation: Warm Welcome Madi
Just some ladybug chocolates on my bed



Just working out on my bed, nbd.
The week has been pretty calm and not much has really happened. Last night my host brother came home and the whole family went to a big party for my host parents' company. The party was a lot of fun and my host parents hired 2 comedians for the evening - the things they did were hilarious...even in German.
The comedians dancing 
She went into the splits after this
After making Romeo gallop around the room to find his Juliet who was on stage screaming his name through a picture frame, and having reindeer gallop behind Romeo, and a few other questionable things, everyone ended up on stage for the proposal.

My host dad thanking the comedians for the night.
Today I stayed home and helped my host mom cook a little bit and then in the afternoon we went into town to rent me skis! I am so excited to go skiing again and we are taking a week-long ski vacation in March to a huge resort in Graubünden! 

Tomorrow I am going with my host brother and his girlfriend and a friend of his from Taiwan into the mountains to go tobogganing for the day! I am so excited for snow (where we are it is too low for the snow) and apparently there is a run just for sleds! I'll be sure to put up pictures! 

My big brother arrives in Switzerland on Thursday and I am so excited to pick him up from the airport! I haven't hugged my family in almost 6 months so it will be great to actually "touch" him instead of only seeing him through the computer screen!

Until next time,



Friday, 13 January 2012

Reality is...

I think these past few days have been the hardest few days of my exchange thus far - and not because I've had problems and not because I'm sad, but because I've been forced to put on my big girl panties and deal with reality. 

For the past 5 months or so, I've been living in a dream. To me nothing has really seemed real. I have enjoyed every moment that I've spent here in Switzerland, but I still wake up some mornings and am surprised that I am not in my room back in good ol' Ancaster. I often have to remind myself how amazing I have it and how lucky I am to be where I am right now in my life. However, with all that said, I often feel like I live in a dreamland and reality is nowhere to be found. 

Unfortunately, I have been abruptly brought back to reality these past few days. I have had to say goodbye to so many people that I care so deeply about and that have made a huge impact on my life. I had never really been good at goodbye's, but this time they were even harder than normal because in all honesty, I'm not sure I will ever see half of these people again - and that was a realization I wasn't ready to face.

After many hugs and tears and laughs and more tears and more hugs, everyone slowly went their respective ways and then the big realization hit me - in 6 months, that will be me. For the first 5 months of my exchange I have taken everything in - I have learned a new language (and not an easy one at that), I have become part of a new family, I have made new friends (but nobody can replace the old), I have experienced so much, I have travelled to places I never even knew about, I have seen things I had only ever dreamed of seeing, I have climbed mountains (both literally and metaphorically), I’ve had many new firsts and a few never-agains, but most important, I have had the opportunity of a lifetime. My adventure isn’t over yet and I still have the better part of 6 months to experience all that this year has to offer, but saying goodbye to everyone really got me thinking…

I realized that as much as I may not want to go home, the day is going to come and I won’t have anyway of stopping it from coming. I realized that I need to wake up from my dream and come to grips with reality. The reality that everything comes to an end eventually but until then, I can only enjoy it – and that’s exactly what I plan on doing.

I have already seen so much of Switzerland, but I still have sooooooo much more to experience. So until I step on that plane headed home, I am going to be one adventurous little girl. Tonight, when I got home from the airport, I sat down and made a list of all the places and things I want to visit while I’m still here – and I plan on crossing every single thing off that list.

But enough of my rambling! It’s been a long and emotion-filled few days and the week is just going to get harder. Next weekend I move host families and I’m not sure I have the emotional capacity to deal with all of the emotions that are about to come my way. I have an entire 5 months to pack into two small suitcases and it’s more than just clothes – it’s memories and laughter, game nights and fondue dinners, hiking adventures and lazy days on the balcony, but most importantly it’s 6 people that I am not ready to say goodbye to. I came to this country not knowing a soul and was welcomed openly into the arms of my host family. To me they are more than my host family – they are and forever will be my family. I honestly don’t know how I’m going to make it through this week emotionally alive, but I’ll be sure to blog about if I do come through on the other end.

With that said, I have another family waiting with open arms for my arrival and I am just as excited for a new beginning as I am sad that this chapter of my exchange is coming to an end.

Before my tears soak my keyboard, I should probably go. I have a big week ahead of me and I need to catch up on some sleep.

Tchüss from Switzerland,

Madi

Friday, 6 January 2012

A New Year and a new blogging me...hopefully!

WOW.

So this time it really has been a while since I've updated everyone on my life and I truly apologize for that! The months of November and December were so busy with school engagements, dinner parties and outings that I completely ignored my blog - so much so that I actually forgot the password to my account. Oops...

I survived Christmas and New Years which are said to be the hardest times for an exchange student. To be honest, it never really felt like holidays were even here. It snowed the weekend before Christmas, but it all melted the Friday before because it was so warm outside...I had my first green Christmas ever (in Switzerland, what is this?!).

I was so excited when the snow came!
You can take the girl out of Canada, but you can't take the Canada out of the girl (including the Birkenstocks)
Although there are Christmas traditions here, it is not anywhere near as big of a holiday as it is for us in Canada, so I never really had the whole "holiday spirit" thing going on. I know most people hate the Christmas music that plays in department stores for months before Christmas, but I actually missed hearing them this year! I did however, sing in the Christmas concert put on by my class at the end of December. They all sounded so beautiful and I didn't want to ruin it with my tone deaf voice, so I lip-synced, but hey, I gave it a try.


Leading up to Christmas, I received a few packages from home:

A beautiful Advent Calendar that my mom quilted stuffed with goodies to look forward to everyday!

So many packages with Christmas presents for me and my host family!

I also participated in a few Christmas traditions that my host family has. I went with my host dad and host sister to pick out our Christmas tree and cut it down. We walked from our house to a tree nursery in the middle of the forest and looked around for a long time until we found the perfect one!

It was critical.

Taadaa! We found one :)

I also helped my host mom and host sister bake Christmas cookies and we had a lot of fun! My host mom threw flour in my face when we were rolling out the dough and then we took selfies together!

Rita and I making cookies!

We are such an attractive bunch!
<3
I wasn't around when my host parents decorated the tree, but I was able to take pictures of it! One interesting thing about Christmas in Switzerland - and most of Europe - is that they put real candles on the tree instead of lights! It was really pretty, but also made me nervous...

So schön!
SO CRAZY!

In Switzerland, Santa Claus doesn't come on Christmas Eve, but instead on the 6th of December. He doesn't bring presents to the children, but instead he brings oranges, nuts and chocolate! He also looks a lot different here and resembles the Pope more than anything! My Rotary Club had a social gathering on December 6th and guess who decided to pay us a visit?! 

St. Nikolas & his counterpart (but I forget the name...) 
Another thing I really missed this year about Christmas, was the big feast for dinner! Here, Christmas is celebrated on December 24th, so that was really different for me! Christmas Day was nothing here and I slept until 10:30am - WHAT IS THIS - before I Skyped with my family and opened the stocking my mom sent me from home! Although it was a very different Christmas this year, it was one that I will definitely never forget. My host parents gave me a Swiss German - High German dictionary and I don't think I could have received a better gift! It is so helpful and understanding Swiss German is becoming much easier!

Our Christmas dinner!
Pork Roast wrapped in dough, Polenta and vegetables!
In between Christmas and New Years, my youngest host sister had her 15th birthday! She really wanted to go skiing, so my host dad, Céline, her friend and I headed to the Alps to go skiing for the day. I thought I knew how to ski until I got to the top of the run looked down and almost peed myself... I did make it down eventually, but it was definitely an interesting day! Nonetheless, I can cross "Skiing in the Swiss Alps" off my bucket list and I'm sure it won't be the last time I'm racing down the slopes this year either! 

We stuck to the easier runs in the afternoon, but the pure beauty is still astonishing.  
Adelboden was the name of the ski hill

Oh, hey there!
When the going gets rough, use your snowboard as a toboggan.

For New Years, my host family and I headed back up into the Alps! We stayed in a little village called Sigriswil that over looks the Thunersee and is located in the Bernese Oberland. We were visiting a friend of the host family's and some of our other friends met us up there to bring in the new year! It was so much fun and my favourite New Years Eve I've ever had. For the first little while we just sat around and talked and did a lot of relaxing which was really nice. Just before midnight, we walked down to the village centre where there was a big party and celebration. It was complete with a Swiss tradition where some of the village people (not the YMCA singers), walked through the village with humongous bells. It was so cool! Céline and I stayed out pretty late and enjoyed the evening and it was so much funnnn! 

Lisa - my host dad's Godchild - and I  
Céline & I 
The view from our house over New Years
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I have also managed to keep myself pretty busy over the past few months and here are a few photos from my adventures!

My friend from home, Alyssa, stopped through Switzerland on her European adventure
She stayed with my host family and I
They took us to eat fondue in Le Gruyère
Céline, myself & Alyssa
November 30, 2011
A visit to beautiful Zürich
 January 4, 2012
Looking out over Zürich with Emily
January 4, 2012

A visit to the Lindt Chocolate Factory just outside of Zürich
 December 21, 2011 
Lindt, Lindt, Everywhere
December 21, 2011
Mixing the chocolate at the factory
Me, Daniel, Adriana, Morgan and Mark
December 21, 2011
The United Nations in Geneva - Round 2
Caroline, Kelsey, myself and Veronica
January 5, 2012
At the United Nations
Caroline, myself and Veronica
January 5, 2012

I wrote my very first letter in German!
January 5, 2012
Fooling around with a few of my classmates during a break from school
Elena, Aline, Amy and I
December 23, 2011

I have also challenged myself to take a photo a day for a year and post the pictures on Facebook! The link to the album is below. Feel free to check it out!
https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.10150602757740120.429993.613480119&type=1&l=ad84b375f4

So that's all for now, and I promise not to keep you hanging so long again!

Herzliche Grüsse aus die Schweiz,
 <3 Madi